tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post7038413107056278839..comments2024-02-02T03:32:36.204-07:00Comments on SQUIDALICIOUS: WorryUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-84878388921632555902008-11-09T08:35:00.000-08:002008-11-09T08:35:00.000-08:00We have the opposite problem. My youngest, who's a...We have the opposite problem. My youngest, who's almost 3, is a tough little cookie, and tends to try and take what she wants.<BR/><BR/>Initially, Tristan would share with her when she cried. This actually taught her to share and she shares with him regularly.<BR/><BR/>However she also does the typical smacking thing that young children do. This has both taught previously nonviolent Tristan to smack (though he seems to do it playfully), and also taught him to quite frequently push her away or pull out her hair when she gets near him.<BR/><BR/>It's somewhat of a mixed blessing. Since both Lily and Tristan are tough little kids, it's more of a sibling rivalry thing, and it's kind of neat that nonverbal tristan has sibling rivalry, but it also worries me.Navihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04580741811662935801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-9570209205623340462008-11-04T19:33:00.000-08:002008-11-04T19:33:00.000-08:00Hi. Just found this blog through Till The Short Bu...Hi. Just found this blog through Till The Short Bus. I have a five year old with cp, and he regularly hits his sister/pulls her hair throughout the day. She's 3. I know just how emotionally painful it is to see this happening. I often end up telling Sabrina that when Max is doing that she should just move away and go play with her toys alone. Once, I hate to admit, she was so mad at him she pulled his hair back and I almost didn't want to stop it--I wanted Max to see just how it feels when he does that. Hopefully, things will get better. hang on. I just started a blog about my son, here 'tis: www.lovethatmax.blogspot.com<BR/>EllenEllen Seidmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01433429847255621203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-58030994753019806932008-11-04T10:30:00.000-08:002008-11-04T10:30:00.000-08:00Gosh...I can't imagine how hard it is to see Mali ...Gosh...I can't imagine how hard it is to see Mali like that. You are having to be Mama Bear toward your other baby who you play Mama Bear for out in the world. That's just not right! Wishing Leelo's body some peace so that he doesn't feel the need to lash out at others or hurt himself. Keeping you guys in my thoughts.Mama Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08381495916734086130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-67941445791311239482008-11-03T22:51:00.000-08:002008-11-03T22:51:00.000-08:00I'm so sorry. That must be so unbelievably hard. ...I'm so sorry. That must be so unbelievably hard. Your family is in my prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-84072587592227512382008-11-03T21:12:00.000-08:002008-11-03T21:12:00.000-08:00When is your appointment to talk about meds? Can ...When is your appointment to talk about meds? Can you push it up a little? Can you ask for a script to start before the appointment. Believe me, it took us a LONG to consider meds. I waited until there was no other choice (probably, a little longer than that). Now, I am sorry I waited so long. Asher still has his issues but they are reduced 75%.A Momma Just Trying to Make it Through the Dayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07259054509735412831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-20301659610328907312008-11-03T13:02:00.000-08:002008-11-03T13:02:00.000-08:00*hugs**hugs*Captain Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07326044815552436833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-58805255583226816482008-11-03T11:30:00.000-08:002008-11-03T11:30:00.000-08:00Yegads. Is it worse than when I was there? (Unders...Yegads. Is it worse than when I was there? (Understanding that I have a pretty broad understanding of "bad," since my kids are older.) <BR/>We had some hitting here yesterday, and it left all but Mark in tears, because sometimes, dammit, it is just so effing unfair.<BR/><BR/>You should know you are constantly in my thoughts.DivaLeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777712092222499616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-68600642816465835192008-11-03T10:07:00.000-08:002008-11-03T10:07:00.000-08:00Everyone, thanks for your support. Mostly this pos...Everyone, thanks for your support. Mostly this post is for the record, to look back on for when it gets better, because it will and it has to.<BR/><BR/>@anonymous, I have not heard of ABA residential centers in California, but I will do some research. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>What is killing me is how wonderful Leelo has been recently, 95% of the time. Responsive and talking and sweet and fun. Until he encounters a trigger.Shannon Des Roches Rosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18057806553670980068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-79667530165302508202008-11-03T07:38:00.000-08:002008-11-03T07:38:00.000-08:00A lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. For all ...A lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. For all of you. If I were there, I would hug you and we could cry together, for all the wrongness of this.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15530972001172936718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-27799749074580790952008-11-03T07:05:00.000-08:002008-11-03T07:05:00.000-08:00What is the availability of intensive ABA resident...What is the availability of intensive ABA residential placements in your area? When a child becomes this aggressive to other family members it is diffcult, but many times the recommendation is for residential placement. Are there any intensive ABA residential settings that seem appropriate? Keep in mind these placements are very different from an "institutional setting." They are an intensive ABA center only the child also resides there and comes home periodically. Not sure if California has this option.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-32768225782889444302008-11-03T06:24:00.000-08:002008-11-03T06:24:00.000-08:00I'm really, really sorry. I cannot imagine how har...I'm really, really sorry. I cannot imagine how hard that must be.vanessa steckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18445077811712108661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-17501976202135764812008-11-03T06:00:00.000-08:002008-11-03T06:00:00.000-08:00I'm so sorry for all of you. This is what we go t...I'm so sorry for all of you. This is what we go through as well. It absolutely kills me that our daughter can be so afraid of our son. I worry what she is learning from all of this for her future. <BR/><BR/>Just know you're doing a good job and it's tough. She'll be okay in the end.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-82687381794673102912008-11-03T05:35:00.000-08:002008-11-03T05:35:00.000-08:00I'm so sorry Squid. It's not supposed to be this h...I'm so sorry Squid. It's not supposed to be this hard. Sending you a hug.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-17542856639721529212008-11-02T23:40:00.000-08:002008-11-02T23:40:00.000-08:00OMG, Squid.Mali is breaking my heart with that loo...OMG, Squid.<BR/>Mali is breaking my heart with that look on the picture.<BR/>I know you must be worried about her emotionally too.<BR/>I wish I could offer something wonderful to say.<BR/>I am sending you love and support.<BR/>If you ever need a hand, call me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5563550.post-62151072000601362612008-11-02T22:49:00.000-08:002008-11-02T22:49:00.000-08:00I'm so sorry Squid. My heart hurts for you. Mali, ...I'm so sorry Squid. My heart hurts for you. Mali, she will be okay. You guys are doing a great job. <BR/><BR/>We'll figure it all out...soon. And in the mean time we will help you any way we possibly can.<BR/><BR/>Love you and "all of those children"<BR/><BR/>jennyalice and DescartesJen Myershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17178547646207135454noreply@blogger.com