'Retard' is a word used to make fun of people like your brother, people with intellectual disabilities. It is an awful word, and people who know better should not use it.She asked me what to say to her friend, and I told her she could try the following:
1) 'Retard' makes fun of people like my brother.She'll be home in a few hours. We'll see how it went. And I think I'll have her watch the Not Acceptable PSA, even though it will further puncture her safe happy assumptions bubble.
2) So it hurts my feelings when you use that word.
3) So please do not use that word.
What would you have said?