Friends, I Likes Them

I wrote this comment to my dear Jenijen, who was concerned that I didn't spill my own beans when she was spilling hers, last we chatted:

"Friends listen regardless of their own deal, not while waiting to talk about it. Friendship is neither a game of tragedy-trumping nor one of altruism. It is about being mindful of the people you care for."
To have friends, you have to be a friend. That is the way it works. And I feel grateful to have so many good friends in my circle, grumpyfucked as I have been lately.


  1. Anonymous11:36 AM

    Man, you guys are killing me.

    Having a hard time keeping my two cents to myself.

  2. Me and jenijen? What did we do?

  3. Anonymous4:29 PM

    Thanks again for listening when you have your own grumpyfuckedness.

    I <3 you.

    Whatever it was, we totally didn't do it. ahem

  4. Anonymous11:39 PM

    Grumpyfucked. I lurves that word. One of you needs to put that in the Urban Dictionary. ;)


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